Separation Anxiety
Separation anxiety: A dog is a social animal. It wants to be with the family and being alone is not an entirely natural situation. Some dogs can not adjust to this situation without help. As a puppy, a dog learns that making sounds brings its mother to it. So barking, whining and crying are natural reactions when the dog wants to be reunited with its family. It may also consider digging, scratching at the door or window and other behavior designed to allow it to escape the house and rejoin its family to be "normal". Dogs may become so anxious that they tear up objects indiscriminately, defecate or urinate without control. If a dog is punished for these actions, the resulting increase in anxiety can make the whole situation worse. It is best just to ignore the destruction if at all possible. In order to treat the disorder, it is necessary to set aside some time to figure out exactly what is happening and to help your dog adjust to separation.
1) The first thing you need to do is spy on your dog to figure out how long he or she waits before tearing up stuff in your absence. Some dogs literally start in one minute or less. Others wait a half hour or an hour or whatever. Once you have an idea of this you can work on the problem. It is also necessary to teach your dog at least to "sit" and hopefully to "stay" prior to working on the actual behavioral problem.
2) A dog that is so nervous that it must be in the same room with you all the time requires working with sit and stay until it can tolerate you being out of the room -- then start to work on leaving the house. It can help a great deal with steps 2 and 3 in this process to use an anti-anxiety medication, such as amitriptylline (Elavil Rx) or buspirone (Buspar Rx). Talk to your vet about this. It is also very helpful to consider asking about referral to a certified veterinary or animal behaviorist for assistance.
3) Leave for short periods and come right back -- sometimes all you can do is stand outside the door for a few seconds. Don't stay away long enough for your dog to get upset. The idea is to lengthen the time gradually. It may help to vary the time some so your dog can't keep track of a "routine". Keep this up until your dog is comfortable with you gone for a reasonable length of time. Don't make a big deal over coming back in -- it is best to greet the dog quietly or ignore it.
4) Once your dog can tolerate you being gone for an hour or two, it will probably be possible to make the jump to longer durations without much problem. Usually, about the time your dog is very comfortable with being left alone, it is best to begin a slow taper off of any behavioral medications used to help in the treatment of the separation anxiety. Abruptly stopping the medications can lead to a relapse, so take a little time to wean your dog off according to your veterinarian's directions.
Going On A Vacation And Hiring A Petsitter?
Here are a few questions to answer for the petsitter to make life easier for your dog:
1. How often should
the petsitter walk the dog?
2. How long should each walk be?
3. What are the routes your dog is familiar with?
4. Where is the leash kept?
5. Should the petsitter let the dog outside on its own? How often?
6. What should the sitter do if he/she cannot find the dog outside?
7. May the petsitter take the dog with me on short car rides?
8. Where does your dog usually like to sleep?
9. Does your dog have an illness the sitter should know about?
10. If you’ve left medications for the dog, how does the sitter best administer?
11. What should the sitter do if the dog vomits?
12. What should the sitter do if the dog goes potty in the house?
13. How would you describe your dog’s temperament?
14. How do you suggest the sitter make friends with your dog?
15. What voice commands does your dog know?
16. What discipline works best with your dog?
17. What are your dog’s favorites games or toys?
18. May the petsitter feed the dog table scraps now and then?
19. Are there any “people foods” that are taboo for your dog?
20. What should the petsitter do if the dog won’t eat?
21. Does the petsitter need to bathe the dog? With which products? How often?
22. Should the petsitter brush the dog? How often? Where is the brush?
23. Should the sitter treat the dog or house with flea products while you are gone?
24. Is any place in the house off-limits to your dog?
25. Which interior doors are to remain open?
Associated
signs that are usually observed in a dog
with separation anxiety include the following:
The dog remains close to the owner.
The dog becomes distressed with increasing distance from the owner, such as a trip to the mailbox or taking out the trash.
The dog shows signs of restlessness or depression as the owner prepares to leave.
The dog greets the owner excessively upon his or her return home.
The dog may not eat when the owner is absent and may only eat in the presence of the owner.
Here are some helpful links
on the subject:
Wag 'n' Train - Separation Anxiety
Canines.com - Separation Anxiety
Doggie Door - Separation Anxiety
Applied Ethology - Separation Anxiety
A Breed Apart - Separation Anxiety
Adopt A Greyhound - Separation Anxiety
